Elimination Communication, honestly explained

Respond to your baby's cues, not just the diaper

Elimination Communication means responding to your baby's cues instead of relying only on diapers — your baby stays diapered, and the cover just opens when it's time to go. Fewer disposables, and newborn pottytunities are never missed.

The fuss-free outer layer of our diapering system:

“So what do I actually put on my baby?”

Your baby stays diapered the whole time. The separate, detachable waist belt allows the diaper to pop open from the front or back to go potty in seconds — so newborn pottytunities are never missed and you cut disposable waste along the way.

Absorbent pads snap into the diaper cover for a flexible, customizable diapering system.

Press play to watch it go on in real time — or here's the short version:

  • Belt goes on baby
  • Pads snap into diaper covers
  • Swap out pads, reuse covers
  • Diaper opens from front or back to go potty

What do you do at night?

Is it too late to start?

What if my baby is already walking?

What gear do I actually need?

Wherever you're starting, there's a stage for you.

How EC progresses with Flappy-Nappies®

Elimination Communication means responding to your baby's cues instead of relying on diapers alone. Here's what that looks like as they grow.

  • Newborn

From day one

The drop-flap cover opens from the front or back in seconds and drapes over the potty, so newborn pottytunities are never missed. Infant-to-Toddler covers fit newborns as small as 7 pounds.

  • Into your routine

The early months

One-handed opening on a waist belt or Chappy-Nappy pants makes fast potty trips part of your everyday routine.

  • Sizing and adjusting

As baby grows

Swap the snap-in pad and adjust the cover to keep fitting from about 15-30 lbs (roughly 6-24 months), supporting EC and cutting disposable waste the whole way.

This video walks you through the different diaper cover sizes, how to adjust them, and how the pad sizing works.

From day one
The early months
As baby grows

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Flip through the book with me 👀

Let's take a sneak peek at what's inside my book. Play the video to flip through the book with me!

Let's get your doubts out of the way

Whether you're pregnant and planning ahead or wondering if it's "too late" to start with an older baby, I provide the tools you need to get started.

When you feel like EC has "stopped working", I teach you why certain milestones are commonly associated with EC challenges and how to overcome them.

Many EC resources suggest that your baby will be "diaper-free by walking", but for many families, the opposite happens. This book includes both a dedicated section for navigating the “walking potty pause” and also the ideal strategy for ditching the diapers for good.

Nighttime is often the biggest unanswered question in EC and even in potty-training books.

This guide covers EC at night for babies, transitioning toddlers to nighttime dryness, and what to do if bedwetting persists into the elementary years.

I've hiked, camped, and traveled by boat, plane, car, or train and done EC through it all. Whether you need help navigating a grocery run or a cross-country road trip, my book has dedicated chapters for outings and travel with both EC babies and also with newly diaper-free toddlers.

This book includes real testimonials from successful EC parents, including what worked, what didn’t, and how they navigated challenges. Their stories helped shape the FAQ section at the end of the book, which answers dozens of questions about EC, potty-training, and beyond.

Over the years, I've tried just about every EC product on the market and include reviews of dozens of potties, clothes, and other gear, complete with links and registry checklist.

You'll also get....

Quick-reference guide

A printable one-page quick-start sheet is included for easy reference

Printable potty log

Keep track of your baby's potty timing and cues with the included one-page printable potty log

Registry Checklist

Stay organized while planning your EC/cloth diaper registry with the one-page printable checklist

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